I am so sorry to hear of your marriage experience. It may sound difficult and complex to extract yourself from this situation,but in reality it is not. What you must do is look separately at each aspect of the problem.
The first issue is to jurisdiction, and to which Court in which country you must apply. You say that you now reside in the UK. In itself this is not necessarily enough to give the UK courts jurisdiction to dissolve the marriage. For them to do so you must have UK domicile. This is a fixed intention to live and remain in the UK. I suspect that as a British passport holder you will have this, and I would not envisage any jurisdiction problems in making an application to what would be any UK County Court with divorce jurisdiction.
The next issue is grounds to present a nullity petition, and very clearly you have this as the marriage was not consumated.
The third and final barrier is service of the petition, with you not knowing where your husband now lives. What you will have to do is advertise the
issue of your nullity petition in a newspaper covering the area you most likely believe he is living. Not knowing where he lives is not a bar to
obtaining a decree, it is only necessary for you to
show the court that you have done everything possible to bring the petition to his notice.
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• Get a divorce
• Have contact with my children
• Make a small claim
•Write a letter of claim
•Obtain a Grant of Probate
•Get legal advice and help with my case
•Make a Will
•Change my Name
•Prepare a legally binding agreement
• Sever a Joint tenancy
• Prepare a Partnership Agreement
• Sell a Jointly owned Property
• Appoint a Guardian for my children